Alan Kay
This is where I share my thoughts on psychology and the human mind. So follow along as I dive deep and share my insights, stories, and experiences.
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We often pride ourselves on being self-aware, but what does that really mean? Is self-awareness just a buzzword or is there more to it? This article explores the psychology behind self-awareness-challenging us to rethink how well we truly know ourselves.
We tend to believe that more choices lead to more freedom, but is that really the case? This article explores the paradox of choice—how having too many options can lead to stress and dissatisfaction. Through psychology, real-life examples, and personal experiences, we uncover why simplifying decisions can lead to a happier, more focused life.
Ever wondered why you look great in the mirror but not in photos? This article explores the psychology behind self-perception, how cameras distort reality, and why we often judge ourselves too harshly.
Plus, a personal story about how a simple photo almost stole my happiness—and what I learned from it.”
Why does rest feel like a waste of time? In a world that glorifies hustle, slowing down can feel uncomfortable—even guilt-inducing. This article unpacks the deep-seated beliefs that make us equate rest with laziness, the psychology behind our struggle to switch off, and how we can reframe downtime as a necessity, not a failure. Plus, a personal journey of unlearning guilt and rediscovering the art of true rest.
This article explores the common struggle of decision paralysis—the fear of making the “wrong” choice in pursuit of the “perfect” one. It challenges the belief that a single ideal path exists and highlights how every choice comes with its own set of trade-offs. Instead of chasing perfection, the key is to commit, adapt, and grow through our decisions. Life isn’t about always picking the best option—it’s about making the most of the choices we make.
Why do we feel the need to always be "okay"? In a world that rewards resilience and strength, admitting struggle can feel like a weakness. This article explores why we suppress difficult emotions, the societal pressure to appear fine, and the psychological impact of denying our struggles. Plus, a deeper look into why embracing vulnerability isn’t just okay—it’s necessary for true emotional well-being.
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